We kept an email on their car to give me a call at some point

Very comprise close, talking, we invited your over to observe a motion picture in which he decided to answer me 6 hrs later, to tell me personally he’d love to but hes likely to a BBQ at his pals house

We found eventually when we comprise both walking all of our dogs at out flats, yes we stayed in equivalent involved. He performed, therefore we spoke as pals and in addition we would get our canines for strolls, we seriously enjoyed one another. About each week into speaking he informs me him and his girl decided to get back together but the guy nonetheless planned to become buddies. Fourteen days afterwards they split and he took me on a night out together. He then chose that it was all a bit too much and then he demanded some time and desired to take affairs sluggish. good.. but I attempted maintain products regarding friend degree and then he begun are actually flirty thus I is cautiously upbeat about factors. I felt like circumstances were picking right up somewhat but when I would personally inquire where affairs happened to be heading (aka being needy) the guy stopped hanging out with myself.. eventually i recently have pissed and didnt consult with him as much. soon after we proposed we feel buddies with benefits..that began fantastic but he welcomed me personally over one-night and now we merely cuddled and viewed a movie we got into sleep and in addition we didnt have sexual intercourse…just a sleep over.. Thus I began creating “expectations” (aka getting needy once again) and he would get back to the “we said i desired to need affairs slow, i don’t desire a realationship today.” Therefore we chose to just take one step back and be buddies. Then he would flirt beside me once again and state things such as “i like to take you out to lunch shortly and invest then night with each other” but however never ever really plan it! Thus I quickly would get angry and confront him about their behavior…Its perhaps not fair whenever we opt to getting family he begins acting all flirty and trusted myself on. So this has become happening for months today and that I havent viewed him in months, the become all texting, he moved out of the specialized.

Everything has merely started weird, we never ever discover both, He never accepts when I try making plans to go out, he ceased generating programs completely and stuff has simply already been..Were buddies, comprise flirting, we freak-out on your with my expecations, had been company, happened to be flirting the like…Then ultimately we came to an understanding, that I cant see upset when he cant hang out with me always. I said okay if their maybe not cancelling on me very last minute or making me dangling. The guy assented. I said “ok, well have some fun, perhaps other opportunity” Im fuming around!! like he hasnt viewed me in weeks and then he selected a barbeque over me personally?? later that evening he mentioned “i skip your” and I eliminated that and just answered straight back with something obscure..the further number of texts are myself particular generating fun of your and simply preventing their flirty messages…The overnight the guy texted and mentioned hi and I also didnt reply for 5 several hours.. and I only stated sorry ive been active..and he typed right back “whatever” We didnt respond..later that night he texted “hey you!” and that I didnt reply till the second morning advising him I became unwell and fell asleep very early…the after that few messages were, to put it mildly, embarrassing because I am able to tell hes backside injured about how We handled him..I tried to really make it right by claiming “sorry if ive come quick along with you, ive become hectic and caught a colder within the week end so im only fatigued, I hope you’d a great week end and day today, by just how I miss you also.” the guy simply reacted with a smiley face…i am aware now after starting lots of checking out that ive come needy and probably really bitchy..so We havent texted your and then he hasnt texted me..I guess ill only anticipate your to come around, and prevent my personal needy attitude and try to let things happen…hopefully I havent damaged nothing..but im puzzled as to the reasons this person continues to be talking-to me…I dont determine if hes playing me personally, if he likes the interest i furnish him or if perhaps he really just likes me and it is awaiting us to quit freaking out on your…. What is the guy starting. Am we waisting my times with this particular man??