All that you solitary ladies, listen up – Britain’s many right-swiped guy on Tinder has some dating advice – DON’T play it cool.

Stefan-Pierre Tomlin racked up very nearly 15,000 loves on their dating profile, making him the Mr that is ultimate Tinder.

Despite being overwhelmed with matches during his five-year stint regarding the software, the 30-year-old model just continued 15 times, and through those times he discovered four appropriate girlfriends.

He has got now settled straight down, with model Egle Damulyte, whom he astonishingly came across in real world AND through the pandemic, but he could be keen to fairly share their Tinder tips.

Stefan, whom lives in Canary Wharf, East London, with Egle, says: “To all the single people out there — get on a app that is dating.

“Especially now through the center of a pandemic.

“It is a great option to arrive at talk with many individuals plus it provides a mind begin.

“My opening line had been constantly something cheeky.

“My best one was ‘You’re much too great for this software, exactly why are you on here?’

“i might be placed down by too filters that are many pictures on Tinder pages. I wish to see people maybe not robots.

“once you put up your profile make certain you have actually a good image as the first one — with good illumination and a background that is colourful.

“Then create your caption one thing witty and funny but ensure that it it is quick.

“I think we racked up numerous loves because I experienced a great bio and good pictures. It absolutely helped that i’m a model.”

As soon as a girl passed Stefan’s initial selection requirements, he’d place them through a safety check to make sure he had been maybe not being conned.

‘I HAD A CHECKLIST BEFORE I MET ANYONE’

He claims: “I would personally constantly attempt to keep the conversation brief on Tinder and then go the talk with WhatsApp.

“People tend to be more likely to simply take things more really as soon as you move off the application.

“i might constantly movie call before a date to n’t check it was a catfish.

“I must-have been quite a good judge of character because we never really had any actually bad times.

“I’d speak with a great deal of individuals, but I’d a list before we met anyone in person.

“I ensured these were genuine and their profile wasn’t fake before I really came across some body in individual.

“Sometimes we continued times exactly the same time but that has been after they’d passed away my security checks with a video clip or telephone call. I’d check always their Facebook and their Instagram to be sure We wasn’t being catfished.”

With regards to a first date, Stefan claims he’d opt for beverages or go-Karting or even to play crazy tennis instead of for meals.

And also as for kissing or sex on a first encounter, Stefan is definately not old-fashioned.

“There had been often this feeling that is awkward we liked somebody in addition they liked me, however they wouldn’t kiss as it had been an initial date,” claims Stefan.

“You can determine if somebody actually likes you immediately. It must you need to be a thing that is natural.

“If there is chemistry and I also had that reference to some body, i recently went along with it.

“In this point in time, then sex on the first date is absolutely fine by me if you get on with someone.

“Watch out for people whom say no intercourse in the date that is first, since they might be doing offers.

“It could be these are typically wanting to comply with the label that making love on a date that is first a no-go. Then why not if you like someone and you’ve got that chemistry?

“You understand whether or not it’s likely to be a fling or something like that more severe through the very first minute you meet. I did son’t have bad times — just discouraging people. I will be quite picky.”

‘IT WAS THE PROPER TIME AND ENERGY TO CALL IT QUITS’

Stefan had been dubbed Mr Tinder three yeas ago after getting the greatest quantity of swipes . . . 14,600.