‘I constantly struggled with monogamy’: the insiders’ view of polyamory Aditya and Chiara. Photograph: Anna Gordon/The Guardian Chiara Giovanni, 24, is in a relationship with a couple. Her partner Aditya Sharad, 23, is monogamous. Chiara: we always struggled with monogamy and discovered it quite restrictive. Even though I happened to be super-happy in my own…